7 Signs You Are Still An Immature Person.
BY DEORAO K,
Have you ever heard people talking, how someone is immature or childish? On the other hand, the very same people label another person how maturity he imparts from his behavior, Haven’t you?
There are certain habits of you or things you do consciously or unconsciously that make you look boyish, immature, or childish. You may or may not be aware of your actions or such habits but people will easily notice it and will judge you whether you are immature or high value person on the basis of that.
Some of you may be aware. Your friends or near ones may have brought it to your notice.
But many of you still don’t know about such habits of you. Because people often feel offended to tell you about such habits. They fear that you may get offended or sad.
Now you must be wondering which are those habits that can make you look like an immature person. And you must be curious to know whether you have one or not, aren’t you?
Well, If this is you are in right place. continue reading…
First, we will see what mature and immature really mean.
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WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY IMMATURE PERSON?
There is no such definition of an immature person. Actually, whether someone is immature or mature is a subjective term. In other words, what is immature for you may be mature for others and vice-versa.
For example, one of your friend who is overly emotional and can’t have control on his emotions. You may find this immature behavior but other people may not think so.
The same can be true for you, you may think that you are a mature and high-value man but people around you may think that you are the most childish and immature.
The bottom line is there is no universally accepted definition stating who is mature and who is immature. It depends on one’s views and mindset and understanding. Still, there are habits that most people consider not good to have.
Maturity is multifactorial, many factors influence our level of maturity, like our age, education, surrounding, experience, intelligence.
Very rarely physiological reasons can also affect maturities like some deficiency diseases and developmental defects in children.
TYPES OF MATURITY AND IMMATURITY.
There aren’t any types as such but still, we can typify this phenomenon into Emotional maturity, Social maturity, and intellectual maturity.
A person may have one or more of these types of maturity and vice versa. A person who is emotionally mature can be intellectually immature. Or a person who is socially mature can be intellectually immature.
SIGNS OF AN IMMATURE PERSON.
Signs of an immature man and signs of an immature woman are not all different. Both of them can relate these signs with them.
Here I sorted out seven such habits that can make you look immature. Find out if you have one or more habits of the following.
Exited? Continue reading…
1.YOU DON’T HAVE CONTROL OVER EMOTIONS.
If you don’t have control over emotions, it will make you look like an immature person. For example, You get intimidated easily with even small emotional stimuli, you get anxious with small problems in your life, you get angry even on insignificant incidences, or you cry easily with small stimuli.
People often consider an overtly emotional person as an underconfident, weak, and immature person.
Extreme emotions can hamper your logical brain. Any decision took in the emotional state often turns out either wrong or you have to pay a big price for it.
2. YOU ARE IMPULSIVE.
Impulsive people are famous to act spontaneously on mare intuition and don’t use logic to execute things. For example, they act or do something without thinking about probable consequences that may occur. Which leads them into trouble, like speaking without thinking or acting without thinking.
Also, Impulsive people can’t stay firm on their decision. They keep tossing their decisions back and forth according to their mood. Sometimes they change their decision within few minutes. This makes them look unprofessional, not committed to work, disinterested, or immature.
Because their actions are often premature, inappropriate, and risky. Impulsive behavior often puts them into trouble.
Because of such behavior rather than finding a solution impulsive people tend to increase the problem.
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3. YOU ARE IRRESPONSIBLE.
One who is irresponsible with his duties, work, and life is always marked as an immature person. One who is mature can never run from his duties and responsibilities.
Irresponsible such as not being serious about a career, Don’t have goals in life, Not taking responsibilities for self and family, and or spends irresponsibly without thinking of earning.
If you are lazy, miserable, and ignorant about your life, work, and family responsibilities people will judge you as an immature person.
4. YOU ARE HIGHLY EGOISTIC.
Overtly egoistic people are hard to get along with. Because they are self-focused and sound selfish. Word ego itself means “I” in Latine language where it originates. Because of high ego, they feel hurt and insulted easily if something happens against their will.
Emotional perfectionism is also an example of egoistic nature in which people feel hurt if someone points out mistakes. Egoistic nature makes them unapproachable and immature person.
5. YOU DON’T HAVE OPINION.
You are too passive and don’t have opinions about good and bad things happening around you. You are not taking an active part in decision-making at work and in life. You are highly agreeable in all situations and find it hard to say no.
This behavior makes you a low-value person. In other words, after some time people start you taking lightly because you are immature for them.
Mature people have a firm opinion about things happening around them. They have the guts to say no when needed.
6. YOU ARE JEALOUS AND ENVIOUS.
Jealousy and envy also make you look immature person. Jealousy makes a person competitive which ultimately leads to anger and rage. Jealousy makes you look like a person of low self-esteem and feminine and childish. A jealous man is the perfect example of an immature man.
People often subconsciously hesitate to trust jealous people because a jealous person can betray them anytime to win over others.
7. VICTIM MENALITY MAKES YOU IMMATURE PERSON.
Victims are by default immature people. Victims let people play with them, let people take their advantage, and never try to fight back against people using them but they keep complaining in their absence. Victims are weak, cowardly, and with low self-esteem.
Victims keep complaining about how people play with them and how other people are taking his advantage but he never raises his voice against it and keeps falling into the same trap again and again.
Victim mentality is common in both males and females but found more in women. Victims are often judged as immature person.
If you have one or more of these habits then beware you could be one.
Signs are as follows,
1. You don’t have control over emotions.
2. You are Impulsive.
3. You are irresponsible.
4. You are highly egoistic.
5. You don’t have an opinion.
6. You are jealous and envious.
7. Victim mentality.
There is no such definition of an immature person. Actually whether immature or mature is a subjective term. In other words, what is immature for you may be mature for others and vice-versa.
It is nothing but an immature person mainly because of physiological and developmental defects.
They have characteristics like decreased emotional tolerance, low executional capacity, low tolerance for pain and stress, low interpersonal intelligence.